Lesbian dating rules
Unless you work in a totally male milieu – for instance, a urologists’s office, NASCAR race track, or beef ‘n’ ale house -- your quest to meet a man will take you to the Internet.The good news is that you’ll find thousands and thousands of guys online, all trolling for dates.(You may be fine with them spending the night, or unsupervised time, with a romantic partner; if so, there is less negotiating to do.) Tell them you will trust them to comply with these ground rules, and to tell you which peers they apply to. It’s very important that all of this is communicated to them openly.Talk about consequences if they do choose to break the rules. Make sure that your reservations come from your teen, and not from discomfort around their sexual orientation.DON’T naively assume that his photo is as up-to-date and accurate as yours.
One of our guy friends salivated over a picture of a pgorgeous, blonde, bikini-clad model.
Does that have to change if you now know your teen is attracted to the same sex?
If you trust your teen to be honest with you about their relationships, set some ground rules.
Men who have sex with men (MSM) are at higher risk for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) than men who have sex with only women.
It’s very important that MSM use condoms with each sex act, consistently, with no exceptions. Don’t avoid discussing pregnancy prevention, as young men who identify as gay may have sexual contact with women as well.
If you’re in doubt, talk to someone you trust to be fair and insightful about this situation.